We will explore
Attachment Styles
Sexual Arousal Maps
Transforming Your Story
About the Conference
At some point in our lives, each of us will encounter difficulties in our sexual life. It might be a compulsive use of unwanted sexual behavior or a struggle to locate any sexual desire at all. No matter what sexual story you find yourself in, this conference will guide you to identify the key attachments that keep you stuck. Sexual desire issues are common, but they can also be a roadmap to healing.
Through the teaching of therapists Jay Stringer and Adam Young, you will learn:
- How to identify your attachment style
- How attachment shapes your sexual life
- How to understand your arousal template
- How to transform your sexual story
This virtual conference is designed for men and women, couples, and small groups who are hoping to connect the dots between unresolved pain and unwanted choices.
Your Teachers
Jay Stringer
Jay is a licensed mental health counselor, researcher, and author of the award-winning book Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way to Healing. Unwanted is based on a research on nearly 4,000 men and women exploring the key drivers beneath unwanted sexual behaviors like the use of porn and extra-marital affairs. Stringer holds an MDiv and Master in Counseling Psychology from the Seattle School of Theology. Jay lives in New York City with his wife Heather and their two children.
Adam Young
Adam is a trauma therapist, and the host of The Place We Find Ourselves podcast. He lives in Fort Collins, Colorado, with his wife Caroline and two children. Adam is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) with a Master degree in Social Work (Virginia Commonwealth University) and Divinity (Emory University). Adam has completed extensive training with The Allender Center, and is certified in EMDR. Adam enjoys mountain biking, skiing, soccer, and painting (canvas, not houses).
Schedule
Friday April 28th: 8PM -10PM ET / 5PM-7PM PT
Saturday, April 29th: 11AM ET / 8AM PT. Subject to change.
Times below in Eastern time zone:
8:00 -8:30 PM
The Place We Found Ourselves: Family, Faith, and Sexual Formation
8:30 – 9:15 PM
How Popular Church Teachings Increase Sexual Problems
9:15-10:00 PM
How Family Systems Shape Our Relationship to Desire
11:00 – 11:30
The Place We Found Ourselves: Introductions and Personal Stories
11:30 – 12:30
Attachment and The Big Six Experiences Children Need
12:30 – 1:00
Self-Directed Exercise: The Big Six
1:00-1:45
Family Systems & Adverse Childhood Experiences
1:45 -2:30
Triangulation and Subtle Sexual Abuse
Lunch 2:30 - 3:30
3:30 – 4:45
Why Can’t I Change? Understanding the meaning of compulsive and low sexual desire.
Break: 4:45 - 4:59
5:00 – 5:30
The Path to Healing
5:30 – 6:10
Kindness to Self and Conversations with Those You Love
6:10 – 6:30
Resources & Next Steps
Details
Included with your registration
- 7.5 hours of teaching from Jay Stringer and Adam Young
- The Big Six and Triangle worksheets ($20 value)
- 1 hour of personal exercises to complete after the conference to further to identify your attachments
- Free month of The Journey Course ($24.99 value)
- 4 Drivers E-book
FAQ
Most frequent questions and answers
Yes, we do. Email Jay at jay@heartofmanjourney.com
We will have a recording available for 4 weeks after the conference airs.
Yes, even if you share the same computer, each person must sign-up.
PLEASE READ
This two-day conference will be hosted on Zoom. We will record the conference and you will receive a video replay option with registration. The recordings will likely be ready to watch on May 8th and will be available through July 30th.
If you do not receive the zoom link by April 26th, please email haley@heartofmanjourney.com
If you do not receive the video replay link by May 10th, please email haley@heartofmanjourney.com
Note:
You must register each person who will view the conference.