Attention Registrants: The next conference will be in April 28th and 29th 2023. A recording will be available for 30 days after the event.

DATES : April 28-29

4/28: 8:00PM - 10:00PM ET / 5:00-7:00 PT

4/29: 11:00AM - 5:00PM ET / 8:00 AM-2:00PM PT

Online + Video Replay

We will explore

Attachment Styles

Sexual Arousal Maps

Transforming Your Story

About the Conference

At some point in our lives, each of us will encounter difficulties in our sexual life. It might be a compulsive use of unwanted sexual behavior or a struggle to locate any sexual desire at all. No matter what sexual story you find yourself in, this conference will guide you to identify the key attachments that keep you stuck. Sexual desire issues are common, but they can also be a roadmap to healing.

Through the teaching of therapists Jay Stringer and Adam Young, you will learn:

  • How to identify your attachment style
  • How attachment shapes your sexual life
  • How to understand your arousal template
  • How to transform your sexual story
This virtual conference is designed for men and women, couples, and small groups who are hoping to connect the dots between unresolved pain and unwanted choices. 

Your Teachers

Jay Stringer

Jay is a licensed mental health counselor, researcher, and author of the award-winning book Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way to Healing. Unwanted is based on a research on nearly 4,000 men and women exploring the key drivers beneath unwanted sexual behaviors like the use of porn and extra-marital affairs. Stringer holds an MDiv and Master in Counseling Psychology from the Seattle School of Theology. Jay lives in New York City with his wife Heather and their two children.

Adam Young

Adam is a trauma therapist, and the host of The Place We Find Ourselves podcast. He lives in Fort Collins, Colorado, with his wife Caroline and two children. Adam is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) with a Master degree in Social Work (Virginia Commonwealth University) and Divinity (Emory University). Adam has completed extensive training with The Allender Center, and is certified in EMDR. Adam enjoys mountain biking, skiing, soccer, and painting (canvas, not houses).


Friday April 28th: 8PM -10PM ET / 5PM-7PM PT

Saturday, April 29th: 11AM ET / 8AM PT. Subject to change. 

Times below in Eastern time zone:

8:00 -8:30 PM
The Place We Found Ourselves: Family, Faith, and Sexual Formation 

8:30 – 9:15 PM
How Popular Church Teachings Increase Sexual Problems

9:15-10:00 PM

How Family Systems Shape Our Relationship to Desire

11:00 – 11:30 
The Place We Found Ourselves: Introductions and Personal Stories

11:30 – 12:30
Attachment and The Big Six Experiences Children Need

12:30 – 1:00
Self-Directed Exercise: The Big Six

Family Systems & Adverse Childhood Experiences

1:45 -2:30
Triangulation and Subtle Sexual Abuse 

Lunch 2:30 - 3:30

3:30 – 4:45
Why Can’t I Change? Understanding the meaning of compulsive and low sexual desire. 

Break: 4:45 - 4:59

5:00 – 5:30
The Path to Healing

5:30 – 6:10
Kindness to Self and Conversations with Those You Love 

6:10 – 6:30
Resources & Next Steps


Included with your registration


Most frequent questions and answers

We will have a recording available for 4 weeks after the conference airs.

Yes, even if you share the same computer, each person must sign-up. 


This two-day conference will be hosted on Zoom. We will record the conference and you will receive a video replay option with registration. The recordings will likely be ready to watch on May 8th and will be available through July 30th. 

If you do not receive the zoom link by April 26th, please email 

If you do not receive the video replay link by May 10th, please email 

You must register each person who will view the conference.  

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